Dear Amy: My 85-year-old alcoholic mother lives alone in a big house in a small village in New England.
Amy Dickinson, Special to Postmedia Network
Seven days a week, letter after letter, Amy Dickinson applies an objective eye to reader problems large and small in "ASK AMY: Advice for the real world." Amy's extensive experience includes a column on family issues for TIME magazine, regular contributions to National Public Radio's "All Things Considered" and guest spots on CBS' "Sunday Morning." As an advice columnist, Amy uses her talents as a journalist and her personal experiences to answer each question with the care and attention she would devote to her closest friends. Her advice is rooted in honesty and trust, traits she applies to her writing and her life. Dickinson, who grew up on a small dairy farm in New York, currently lives in Chicago with her teenage daughter. A graduate of Georgetown University, Dickinson also has worked as a producer for NBC News and as a freelance writer for publications such as The Washington Post, Esquire and O magazine.
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